@nightster - for you as well
Assuming you are on a PC - look up top RH corner and there should be an envelope icon next to your user name (not the one right up the top corner of the site - that's the "Contact Us" link). That's called "Conversations" or a.k.a. Private Messages or a.k.a. PM.
Click on the "Start a new conversation" link and you can send me a message. Start typing my username in the participant field and you should get an autocomplete pop up box come up where you can select the user you are looking for after you enter in a couple of characters. You can send to more than one user at a time - it's just like an internal email system. Once you have finished typing your message just hit the "start a onversation" button and it'll send it off. Keep an eye on your envelope icon as you'll get an alert up there when you receive a PM or a reply form someone.
I'll send you a PM now and you can reply with your personal details.
Cheers