IMO Honesty sessions are as useless as tits on a bull . They are a claytons sessions when you have no answers
Our coach looks like a stunned mullet after each loss .
No inspiration what so ever , When you look at him you feel like crying
We are a club that needs rebuilding and we don't need this sht
We need Strong leadership where actions and results speak louder than honesty sessions and excuses .
A very interesting article that I have found.....
*********************************‘Honesty Sessions’ Don’t Drive High Performance****************************************
Justin Peckett AFL legend
High performing teams have absolute clarity of purpose. They have a deep commitment to a behavioural framework and set of values. They place a premium on strong professional relationships and they create an environment where genuine conversations are the norm, not isolated ‘honesty sessions’. Consistently reviewing performance is integral to a team or organisation’s sustained success.
High performing leaders should understand and value the link between mechanics (KPIs, game/strategic plan, processes, etc.) and dynamics (culture, behaviours). We have heard public commentary about how an organisation’s ‘toxic’ culture can impact performance. Performance can be limited if a team has a ‘great’ culture yet the strategy/game plan is unclear or non-existent. The dynamics can be affected if you don’t have the right people in the right roles or there is a lack of process.
As a former AFL player in a poorly performing team, I was at times subjected to an ‘honesty session’. It was often in response to a string of bad losses when there was a realisation that the season was about to slip away, or following poor individual or team off-field behaviour, or even due to increased negative media attention on the club.
My experience with ‘honesty sessions’ was that they paid lip service to addressing the core issues facing the team. It was all short-term thinking and sometimes very superficial or very combative without adequate follow-up or support. These sessions were more often than not too little too late. I would put ‘honesty sessions’ in the same bracket as mediocre teams using movie nights or paintball to address performance. In isolation, these are poor strategies and very short-term fixes.
‘Honesty sessions’ are the language of mediocre teams. The best performing teams won’t refer to having an ‘honesty session’. In fact, I think they would find it amusing as they would not be singling out a small amount of time in their week or even year to be honest. They do it every single week all the time. High performing AFL teams review weekly with openness, honesty, rigour and with a high level of support, sound strategies and follow-up from fellow players and coaches. Because team members, particularly the leaders, are so heavily invested in the dynamics of their team, they feel compelled to act or say something to their peers if their behaviour or choices impact the team’s performance in a productive or counter-productive way. These conversations are happening regularly and not just in scheduled reviews, team meetings or in a one off ‘honesty session’.
High performing corporate teams and organisations do the same. They dedicate time and space regularly to review in a meaningful way. Again, this includes rigour around not only the operational aspects of performance (mechanics) but also feedback about behaviour, conversations to build strong professional relationships and supporting strategies for workplace issues and challenges.
So what do long term successful AFL and corporate teams have in common? Apart from highly skilled and competent individuals and a sound strategy or game plan, they also have an environment that includes the following:
High Accountability
- Everybody is held accountable.
- There is no point in having high expectations if people are not held to account – this can be as simple as a 1-to-1 feedback conversation.
- Everyone is aware that there is a consequence for not complying with agreed behaviours.
- High Demand Leadership
- The leaders are willing and able to step up and demand that people meet expectations.
- Leaders are role models – they can give and receive feedback, challenge and support others to live the agreed culture and perform to expectations.
There are many factors that separate high performing teams from mediocre or poor performing teams. Our experience over the last 20 years suggests that high expectations, high accountability and high demand leadership play a critical role in determining just how high performing you really are.
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